Soldier's widow fights to place symbol on husband's grave:
Philadephia Inquirer

There are 38 religious symbols approved for placement on government-issued grave markers and memorials for military veterans, but the pentacle isn't one of them.

The five-pointed star within a circle that represents the Wiccan religion, a neo-pagan, earth-based belief system, is not on the list.

As a result, the space reserved for Sgt. Patrick D. Stewart's memorial plaque at the Northern Nevada Veterans Memorial Cemetery in Fernley, Nev., remains empty. Stewart, 34, was killed in September 2005 when his Chinook helicopter was shot down in Afghanistan. He was a follower of the Wiccan tradition, and his wife is fighting to have the fact engraved in stone.

"My husband's faith got him through the war in Desert Storm, through life's problems. It is our spirituality," Roberta Stewart, 36, said. "This is who we are as Americans."

The effort to get the symbol of a tradition that for many conjures up thoughts of devil worship and steaming cauldrons has been going on for nine years, according to leaders in the Wiccan community. In the interim, other emblems have been approved by the Department of Veterans Affairs.

The complete list of authorized emblems of belief is at
Arlington National Cemetery

An example of the Wiccan symbol is on the Wikipedia

A problem with using really simple symbols like a five-pointed star is that different and divergent groups will claim it, in this case, both Muslims and Wiccans.

In the case of Muslims, they really don't have a symbol. Some Muslims reject the five pointed star, others even consider it blasphemous. The declaration on the Saudi flag "There is no god but God; Muhammad is the Messenger of God" is the ideal symbol of Islam.

In the case of Christians, there is a unity around the cross as its symbol.

Frankly, I am sympathetic to the bureaucratic problem religions with a small number of members have with no central authority. It is very hard to identify the bona fides of such religions. I see a contradiction here: if there's no authority, who's to say what the symbol of Wicca actually is?